被女友爸妈嫌穷!台男分手3个月到越南娶妻回来,每天陪摆摊赚钱都归他:现在超幸福Bygirlfriendparentsdisrelishpoor!Taiwanmanbreaksupfor3months,GoestoVietnamtogethiswifeback,Earnsmoneyallbelongstohim:nowsuperhappy 这名男网友在脸书社团爆怨公社上分享,表示自己和女友交往5年,感情一直都很稳定,原本预计再工作2、3年,存了点钱后就打算和女友求婚,但怎料女友的爸妈一直认为他的工作很不稳定,且也没有买房,认为自己的女儿可以遇到条件更好的对象,虽然他曾向女友说过我愿意给你全部,但仍不敌社会有多现实,久而久之,女友的心也跟着被动摇。。。。 Themansaidhehadbeendatinghisgirlfriendforfiveyearsandhadbeeninastablerelationship。Hehadexpectedtoworkforanothertwoorthreeyears,savesomemoneyandthenproposetohisgirlfriend,buthisparentsalwaysthoughthisjobwasunstableandhedidn’tbuyahouse。Theythoughttheirdaughtercouldmeetsomeonebetter,eventhoughhesaidtohisgirlfriend,I’llgiveyoueverything。。Butstilllessthantherealityofsociety,overtime,Girlfriend’sheartisalsoshaken。。。 而在分手后,他一直在想人生还有多少个五年可以浪费,于是在3个月后,他决定直接到越南相亲,把工作和条件全都公开透明化,他也不用再自卑自己的工作,害怕别人嫌弃他,而当越南的待嫁女子能接受他的条件,且同时他也对对方有好感,就可以直接完婚来台。 Afterthebreakup,hekeptthinking,HowmanymorefiveyearsofmylifecanIwaste?Sothreemonthslater,hedecidedtogostraighttoVietnamforablinddate。Hemadehisworkandconditionspublicandtransparent,andhenolongerfeltinferiorabouthiswork,heisafraidofbeingrejectedbyothers,andwhentheVietnamesebridetobecanaccepthisterms,andhealsohasagoodfeelingfortheotherside,hecandirectlygetmarriedtoTaiwan。 现在他靠着认真经营感情、真心对待她,终于克服了语言与生活上的隔阂,他接着透露,自从老婆出去工作后,薪水都是直接拿给他贴补家用,只有一个月拿3、5千寄回越南,孝敬长辈,就连假日也都陪着他一起出去摆摊赚钱,完全没喊苦,如今两人也生孩子了,婚姻生活过得非常幸福! Nowhehasovercomethelanguageandlifebarriersbyworkinghardonhisrelationshipandtreatingherwithsincerity。Headdedthatsincehiswifewentouttowork,hissalaryhasbeengiventohimdirectlytosupporthisfamily,onlyamonthtotake3,5,000sentbacktoVietnam,filialpietyelders,evenholidaysalsoaccompanyhimtogoouttosetupastalltomakemoney,notcryinghard,nowtwopeoplealsohavechildren,marriedlifeisveryhappy! 原PO在文末表示,其实在决定去越南娶亲前,也听过很多外籍嫁过来就是要拿身分证,接着把钱挖光后抛家弃子等等的不好传言,不过原PO认为真心对待可以战胜一切,其实也不是所谓台女好或不好,只是可能当初彼此还不够相爱吧,相爱到可以战胜一切现实。但现在我很幸福。我知道她也很幸福,也遇到了她理想的另一半,算是皆大欢喜。有时候就是看你是不是在对的时间遇到对的人而已。而从他的亲身经历,也证明了有许多新住民其实都是真心嫁来台湾的,不能因为过去那些案例,而以偏概全。 YuanPosaidthatbeforehedecidedtogotoVietnamtogetmarried,hehadalsoheardmanybadrumorsaboutforeignerscomingheretotaketheiridentitycards,thendiggingupalltheirmoneyandleavingtheirfamiliesandchildrenbehind,buttheoriginalPObelievesthatsinceretreatmentcanovercomeall,Infact,itisnotthesocalledTaiwanfemalegoodorbad,butmayhavebeennotenoughloveeachother,lovecanovercomeallreality。。ButnowI’mhappy。Iknowthatshe’shappy,too,andthatshe’smetherperfectmatch,andit’sallgood。Sometimesit’sjustamatterofmeetingtherightpersonattherighttime。hispersonalexperiencealsoprovesthatmanyofthenewresidentsactuallymarriedtoTaiwaningoodfaithandshouldnotbeprejudicedbypastcases。 不管是外籍还是台湾,只要用心经营,婚姻都会很幸福! WhetheritisforeignorTaiwan,aslongastheheartofbusiness,marriagewillbeveryhappy!